I've placed my work in progress, the book It's Not About Them, It's About You, online as an ebook. It may eventually find its way to becoming a bound book edition as well. But, for now it's online to read at no cost.
It is about solving the problem of feeling that you've lost your own self in the process of being in a relationship. Lots of good things in the book besides solving that problem, so you may want to scan it to see what else could be helpful to you in making good changes for yourself. To access the book's contents, click here.